For some the holidays can be intimidating dealing with toxic family members or discord within the
family. I challenge you to have joy this year when you celebrate the holidays and be grateful for those people who challenge you. See it as an opportunity for you to grow. Figure out what your boundaries are and apply them as needed. Focus on what you can connect with them over and enjoy with them and keep gearing things towards that. Let the rest roll off your back. Pick your battles when needed. It’s also OK to spend your holidays how you wish to. If you need a stronger boundary right now for yourself where you can’t be around certain people, then that’s fine too. Make excuses and spend the holidays the way that you desire for it is your holiday! And I add one more thing for you and that is I challenge you to have unattachment to people’s behavior. Try not to expect them to behave badly, try not to expect them to do what you need, and you want, because other people’s behavior is not personal, ever. It is about them and what’s going on inside of them. It’s about their limitations, their capabilities. It’s not personal to you. Just like your limitations and capabilities are yours. Try not to have blame. Try to take responsibly for yourself, your feelings, and your energy. Yet have boundaries when needed. I hope everybody has a wonderful holiday season. Do something for you as well as doing for others.
Many many blessings,
Donna Lakes and her team of Healers at the Ascension Healing Arts Center work to help clients create healing on all levels: mental, emotional, physical and spiritual. They are psychic mediums and medical practitioners who can read energy and use various modalities to heal the body. The center is known for reiki, healing touch, chakra balancing, chiropractic care, acupuncture, and other forms of energy and physical healing. While practically applied, they also utilize consciousness coaching or life coaching with each healing session to raise vibrations and help clients move towards ascension. Based on the law of attraction, they help clients manifest their dreams and step into their power. Various techniques are used for physical healings such as cranial sacral, polarity, reflexology, massage, other forms of body work and energy medicine. Donna also offers workshops in the areas of self-development, energy healing, intuitive development, energy cleansing, chakras and a year-long healer development program. Follow up for more information about the Ascension Healing Arts Center team or for more information on upcoming events.